Having the Biggest Afro Physically Possible [and other things you will deal with]

I stan for my natural hair. Once an avid relaxer fangirl, I now shout "YASSSSSSSSSSSS" really loudly any time I see a natural proudly rocking her kinks. I've also received so many compliments on my extremely nappy and puffy hair that I have no darns to give about folks who feel natural hair is inappropriate … Continue reading Having the Biggest Afro Physically Possible [and other things you will deal with]

Talk that stuff now roll with it [and other ways to be responsible with your words]

I am a talker. I always have been. I used to talk so much that when I was younger that my mother would literally have to ask me to let her exercise in peace for 30 minutesĀ and then promise the rest of the evening was mine to talk about whatever I wanted to. Sad right? … Continue reading Talk that stuff now roll with it [and other ways to be responsible with your words]

I Ain’t got No Worries [and other phrases that make me side eye]

Years ago I did a post on things that made me judge peopleĀ and those things do still make me question folks. But sometimes it doesn't take a whole action to give me pause. Sometimes it's commonly used phrases and/or cliches that invoke the side-eyer deep within. Like, I ain't got no worries. A phrase made … Continue reading I Ain’t got No Worries [and other phrases that make me side eye]